To Judge Them OR To Love Them
Your loved one has had a faith transition and they are making choices that you don't love.
Maybe it is what they are wearing, what they are putting into their body, they way they talk, or the things they are not doing anymore.
You are feeling a bunch of judgement.
AND
More than anything you want to connect with this person that is so dear to you.
But if feels like you are getting further apart.
What to do?
The crazy thing, we are often judging them because they are not living our religion.
Guess who else isn't living their religion when we are juding others?
US!
It is really hard to love someone when we are judging them.
I tried to make it work for years, but never figured it out.
I think Christ was on to something when he asked us to "Judge Not".
Love feels a heckuva lot better.
Love one another as Jesus loves you.
Try to show kidness in all that you do.
Be gentle and loving in deed and in thought.
For these are the things Jesus taught.
If you are struggling with judgement, you are in good company.
We all do it.
If you need help working though the emotions that are coming up for you, I would love to help you work through it.
I get it and have tools to help you.
This weeks podcast had some great tips on judgement, so make sure to check it out.
Episode 15: LITTLE MISS JUDGY PANTS
In this episode you will learn:
What to do with judgement when it comes up.
How to move from judgement to love and connection.
What is YOUR job?
If you like what you are learning come check out my program.
Get the tools, support, and coaching you need to find joy in your mixed faith relationships.
