Ugh..He Is Driving Me Bonkers!
You know that thing that your husband has done your entire marriage that drives you batty?
Maybe it’s his socks on the floor, the toilet seat being left up, or the way he (you fill in the blank).
I want you to notice what do YOU do when he does “the thing“.
Are you surprised every time?
Are you thinking to yourself, "he should do it differently"?
One of the best pieces of advice I’ve ever received is... quit expecting people to be different than they are.
This doesn’t mean that you don’t make requests and share your desires, but it does mean that you don’t need to be surprised every single time it happens.
That just punishes you my friend.
When you expect people to be different than they are YOU DRIVE YOURSELF BONKERS!
Expect him (and any of the other humans in your life) to be exactly as they are.
Give it a try and see what happens.
I’d love to hear about your experience.