Do you have a favorite villain?

Sep 30

Written By Chris Rich Coaching .

Hey friend,

Let’s talk about villains, shall we?

When you think of villains, who comes to mind?

For me it was: Darth Vader, Maleficent, The Joker, The Big Bad Wolf, Cinderella's evil step sisters, and Voldemort.

By any chance, is your loved one on that list as well?

I bet you are thinking…NO WAY!

I don’t know about you, but there have been times I felt like a victim in my mixed faith relationships.

Every victim needs a villain.

I blamed my husband and my kids who have left the church for all my problems.

When we are in victim mode we give away all our power.

I saw all the great things I was doing and judged them for the things I thought they should be doing.

I stopped noticing all the things I loved about them.

It's hard to see the good in someone when you think they are the bad guy.

All I could see were their flaws.

I very unfairly turned the good man I loved, who worked so hard for our family into a villain.

I separated myself from my loved ones I saw "on the dark side".

It is really hard to understand, connect with, or have compassion for a villain.

There is a reason you didn't marry Voldemort, trust me.

If you are feeling like a victim, I totally get it.

If you are ready to change the dynamic in your mixed faith relationships, I can help you.

It feels so much better going from a victim/villain duo to a couple of superheroes on the same team.

Let’s chat and help you change that dynamic.

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The month of October is going to go by whether you connect with your loved one or not. You will have swapped out your summer clothes for your sweaters, you will be eating more soups, and it will be Halloween before you know it. Imagine what would it be like to feel closer to your person, to understand them better, and to feel less disconnection. What is connection worth to you in your mixed faith relationships?

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