How To Beat The Victim Mindset

When my husband left the church I totally felt like a victim.

This was not what was supposed to happen when 2 returned missionaries got married in the temple!

I had done nothing wrong, yet I was the one that got hurt.

That is how I felt and I want to point out, there is nothing wrong with feeling like a victim.

Where it becomes a problem is when we take this mindset with us for the rest of our lives.

It becomes our identity.

If you are a permanent victim, you have no control and you will feel stuck.

Every victim needs a villain.

When we see our spouse or our loved one as that villain, it is really hard to connect with them.

If you are ready to move past feeling like a victim, I get it and know how to help.

I would love to help you change your identity.

Not only will it change your relationship, it will change your life!

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